I have written several articles on what really turn girls off, and what they do hate. But on a second thought, i think i should also it would be nice, to share an insightful article, on What really turn guys off, that Girls are not aware of.
It’s surprising to know, that some girls don’t really know what turn guys off, and just like with girls, there are tons of turn-offs for guys that we girls might not know about. But don’t worry, i will list their biggest turn off here.
As a girl, do you really think that being perfumed up and talking about your ex all of the time are attractive to your boyfriend? News Flash! Those two, could be huge turn-offs for guys that you might not even know about, including others which are listed below.
15 Biggest Turn Off For Guys, that Ladies Aren’t Aware of
1. Long Fingernails
While you spend more hours, doing your fingers and ensuring you have the most beautiful nails in the world, your SO might find it unattractive. It’s really a thing for girls, to always take long, long fingernails as something that are super attractive, it is actually one of the hugest turn-offs for guys.
It will interest you to know, that guys usually like natural and if you are going to have fingernails that are super long, it can actually hurt them if they are making out with you.
So girls, keep it short and simple and don’t over-do the nails, if you really want to please you Boyfriend. This is too hard to ask, right?
2. Wearing Too Much Perfume’
Guys love Perfume, am not trying to say they don’t put on Perfume, all am trying to say, is that they hate too much of it. You must be thinking, that wearing lots of Perfume makes you smell good, right?
While you might love the smell of your perfume, take note that your guy might totally be in love with it, when you spray it in a light form. However, if you put on spray after spray and he smells just like it when he leaves your house, that might not be the best thing.
Smelling good is one thing ladies, but spraying yourself so that the scent embeds itself into your skin isn’t, and most guys find this irritating. As if you are trying to cloak your natural body scent.
My advice to you, is to keep it light, and your guy will totally appreciate it! I might say, more than 80% of girls around the world, are not aware that this is one turn-off for guys.
3. Too Desperate
This is one of the biggest turn off for guys. Wow, this should not be a big secret girls. One of the biggest turn-off for guys that they absolutely hate, is a girl that seems too desperate.
You instantly put them in a state of suspicion. If you are constantly clinging to him and constantly seeming that you can’t live without your guy, it is too much for him to handle, and things might really go sour from there.
Ladies should know, that even some guys are against feminism, Most guys likes a girl that is independent and that only depends on him when she really needs help.
Remember that girls, when you are clinging too hard to your man!
4. Playing Dumb
I have come across girls, who actually give their fellow girls advice, like: Play dumb, guys don’t like intelligent girls, intelligent girls intimidates guys.
Are you for real?? You might think that it’s cute to play dumb a lot of the time. But is important to say here, that guys actually find girls that have opinions interesting and smart.
If you know something girls, make sure that you speak up, Guys want to date a girl that isn’t dumb or do everything they say!
I want Ladies to know this. Playing dumb is old model. This is the 21st century, Men might have liked their women dumb and unintelligent in the 19th or 20th century, but not now. This is one turn-off for guys that a lot of women don’t take too seriously, but it works.
Just be yourself girls, and say your opinion!
5. Talking of Your Ex
This is a vice-versa case. It is also worthy here, to mention that no girl would love her boyfriend, to always talk about their ex. You should probably do same too. Your Man is human, and won’t want to always measure himself up to your ex.
It is no secret that Guys hate when a girl constantly talks about her ex. If you are still in love with your ex, it might not be a good idea to be with someone else.
When you are with your current Boyfriend, constantly talking about your ex might not do you, or your relationship any good.
Talking about your ex, is one turn-off for guys that they absolutely hate! Nobody wants to be a second choice or rebound.
6. Being ‘Too Easy’
Yes, this is one statement that the girls can all agree to. I want to make this clear here my friend, this statement is not just about $ex, it is about #everything!
Guys like to have someone that is interesting, someone that won’t give away all of their secrets on the first date. You might want to leave some mystery about you after the first date. Just to make sure that you are keeping the relationship interesting and fresh.
I know having your opinion is great, but NOT trying to make everything go your way. You’re the girlfriend, not his Mum! One of the biggest turn-off for guys is all about being overbearing.
Girls should know that a guy can make his own decision, just like you can make your own. So there is absolutely no need for you to become his mother and take care of him.
Once a guy notice that you have that “overbearing” altitude, he will surely starts feeling resentful and all around turn the relationship sour. His next move, might be how to break things up with you.
8. Feeling of Entitlement
Why will you want your Boyfriend to buy you everything? He’s your Boyfriend, not your ATM Machine. Guys dislike it, i mean, they really dislike it when a girl pushes all her financial burden on them. helping you should be his own decision, not you, pushing it on him.
You should know that being entitled is another turn-off for guys, and this trait alone can create a lot of tension in a relationship.
Wise up Girls, you aren’t entitled to anything in your relationship, just like your boyfriend isn’t entitled to anything in the relationship too. It’s just two people who love each other.
WHY expect your guy to buy you that Kylie’s cloth? Sparkling necklace?
He’s not your dad, but your Boyfriend.
Please ladies, if you want to do things for your boyfriend, you will be doing it, solely because you love him right? and you want him to do things because he loves you, not because you are entitled to it.
So girls, you’ve got to get off your high horse and treat him with the same respect he treats you.
One of the biggest and dangerous turn-off for guys is attitude and rudeness! I know most girls with altitudes, and they don’t have admirers that much. Guys don’t like a girl that is rude to everyone around them and in general, has a bad attitude.
hey, am not trying to say, that you should be happy-happy all of the time. We all get bad days, but if your bad days outweigh the good ones, don’t take it out on anyone and everyone.
People are watching you, although it might not be obvious, but nobody likes someone with Bad characters, especially the rude ones.
10. Sending Mixed Signals
Here is a classical example of what i mean. Have you ever got that feeling and you are positive a guy likes you, but then, all of a sudden, he ignores you?
Honey, you are sending mixed signals, and it might surprise you to know this, but Men hate mixed signals as much as we do.
You should try not to confuse him with your actions. There’s nothing wrong with being blunt.
In fact, most men prefer when women are upfront about their desires, what they want and especially, Women who speak their mind.
11. Playing Hard to Get.
The #6 point says you shouldn’t be “Too Easy” right? Well let me explain myself before crucifying me 😀 .
You sure must be aware, that men like a challenge, but you shouldn’t make him work too much harder than he has to. If you like him and he likes you, what are you waiting for?
Why play hate, till he loses interest and you don’t know what to do again? You shouldn’t pass up the opportunity for a long lasting relationship, because you want the upper hand.
My advice for you, is this: Just go for it, and stop with the teens games.
You might think; “but Guys knows some girls gossip” Well, the truth of the matter is this, If he hears you talk badly about another girl, you’re going to look bad to him.
it really does not matter, if what you’re saying is true, it can make you come across poorly to him. You don’t want him to mistake you for a bad person.
You want him to see you for the lovely, amazing girl that you are, right? Then don’t gossip.
Top Up: Well, i know some guys who really love gossiping, but until you know what your guy loves, don’t try gossiping in front of him.
13. Being Late
Men certainly love it, when we emerge from the bathroom. But they so much loathe how long it takes us to get ready.
However, as long as you know how long it takes you to look spectacular, you can plan your day around it, even if it means getting started 1 hour before time.
Relationship experts advice ladies, to always give themselves enough time to prepare, before he arrives to pick you up.
14. Being a Clone
Who wants to date a clone? You’ll certainly hate dating a guy, who tries his best, to be like Justin Bieber or The Rock, right?
One thing i want to state here, is that Peer pressure is a dangerous thing that you shouldn’t give in to. It might seem like all of the girls are wearing heels and tiny black dresses, but that doesn’t mean that you have to do that as well.
Guys always like originality. Been fashionable does not necessarily mean, you have to be the spitting image of every other girl out there.
He wants someone special, so don’t be afraid to be yourself.
1. Not Offering to Pay
Here is another thing which girls are totally unaware of. Guys, even if taking you out for dinners or outing, Might not want you to pay, but would love to see you “offer” to pay. When he picks up the check, because it’s the gentlemanly thing to do. But lady, you should at least reach for your wallet.
He might not want you to pay, but he’ll appreciate your offer.
2. Changing Him
Most people, including the females, want their SO (significant others) wants you to like them, for who they really is. Your man would want you, to like him for who he is.
If you decide to date him, but then try to change his personality or appearance, he’s going to feel like he’s not good enough for you, and this will certainly hurt his ego.
If you don’t like him, then find a new man that suits your description, rather than trying to change the one you have.
17. Making Him Jealous
Here is the last Point i want to point out here today, and that is trying to make our boyfriend/guy jealous. Most of us are guilty of trying to make our boyfriend or crush jealous by talking to another guy.
But the sad truth is that this could lead to disaster. You don’t want him to think that you’ve lost interest in him and that you’d rather be with someone else than him, because he might just start thinking about that too much, and his next action, will be looking for a solution.
How would you like it, if your boyfriend flirted with another girl in front of you? Surely you won’t find it interesting, right? If yes, then don’t try getting him jealous.
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